Marriage crisis update?

He is playing you a fool. Tell him that if he doesn't end the relationship with her it's order. He needs to be honest with you for once. He is betraying you and doing it right in front of your face. Most affairs start with an emotional connection and have a lot less to do with . If you think the marriage is worth saving then tell him to get his cheating to counseling with you and fast. I would also tell him to cancel his other phone and change all his emails. If he is caught again get rid of him and take him to the cleaners.